Resources
As a curious person who is fascinated with spiritual and cultural truth, I have accumulated quite a list of recommendations and resources over the years. A note that I have NOT read all of the books, but if I haven’t, I know enough about them/the authors to recommend them. I have separated all recommendations into categories in the lists below. But if you prefer, you can experience them by resource type here. A note that if you are not an amazon user, I suggest bookshop.org to support local book stores.
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Past Gatherings with Rev Dev
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Recommended Podcasts on Spotify
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Recommended books on Amazon
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Recommended videos on Youtube
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Spiritual Music I Love
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Portland Recommendations
On Social Justice & Culture
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Spiritual Experiences
Teacher: Anita Moorjani
Book: Anita Moorjani Dying to Be Me: My Journey from Cancer, to Near Death, to True Healing
Podcast: Lisa Miller, PhD "The Awakened Brain: The Neuroscience of Spirituality" with Lisa Miller, PhD on The Rich Roll Podcast
Book: Dr. Eben Alexander Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon's Journey into the Afterlife
Book: Dr. Eben Alexander The Map of Heaven: How Science, Religion, and Ordinary People Are Proving the Afterlife
Book: Jill Bolte Taylor My Stroke of Insight: A Brain Scientist's Personal Journey
Video: Jill Bolte Taylor My Stroke of Insight TED Talk
Book: Mary C. Neal, M.D. To Heaven and Back: A Doctor's Extraordinary Account of Her Death, Heaven, Angels, and Life Again: A True Story
Interspirituality
Book: Wayne Teasdale The Mystic Heart: Discovering a Universal Spirituality in the World's Religions
Book: Juliet Hollister Living My Dream: The Remarkable Story of the Temple of Understanding
Video: Br. Wayne Teasdale & Ken Wilbur The Mystic Heart: a video series
Interfaith
Book: Ranya Idliby, Suzanne Oliver & Priscilla Warner The Faith Club: A Muslim, A Christian, A Jew - three women search for understanding
Book: Gary R. Renard The Lifetimes when Jesus and Buddha Knew Each Other
Book: Neil Philip The Religions Book: Big Ideas Simply Explained
New Thought
Book: Gary Zukav The Seat of the Soul
Book: Michael Singer The Untethered Soul
Book: Michael Singer The Surrender Experiment
Book: Mercedes Kirkel Mary Magdalene Beckons
Book: Caroline Myss Sacred Contracts
Book: Dr. Joe Dispenza Becoming Supernatural: How Common People Are Doing the Uncommon
Book: Ervin Laszlo Reconnecting to the Source
Book: Panache Desai Discovering your Soul Signature
Book: Ram Dass & Paul Gorman How Can I Help?
Indigenous & Ancestral Wisdom
Teacher: Lyla June Johnston (aka Lyla June) is an Indigenous musician, scholar, and community organizer of Diné (Navajo), Tsétsêhéstâhese (Cheyenne) and European lineages. Her messages focus on Indigenous rights, supporting youth, traditional land stewardship practices and healing inter-generational and inter-cultural trauma."
Teacher: Woman Standing Shining “Pat McCabe (Weyakpa Najin Win, Woman Stands Shining) is a Dine (Navajo) mother, grandmother, activist, artist, writer, ceremonial leader, and international speaker. She is a voice for global peace.”
Video: Lyla June The Resurgence of Indigenous Knowledge
Video: Lyla June The Sacredness of Twoness addressing non-duality/non-binary
Video: 2017 Geography of Hope: Lyla June Johnston on Forgiveness
Book: Robin Wall Kimmerer Braiding Sweetgrass: Indigenous Wisdom, Scientific Knowledge and the Teachings of Plants
Book: James Redfield The Celestine Prophecy (1st book)
Book: James Redfield The Tenth Insight (2nd book)
Book: James Redfield The Secret of Shambhala: In Search of the Eleventh Insight (3rd book)
Book: James Redfield The Twelfth Insight (4th book)
Book: First Nations Version: An Indigenous Translation of the New Testament
Book: Alberto Villoldo, PhD Shaman, Healer, Sage
Book: Clarissa Pinkola Estes Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype
Video: Dr. Tracey Hucks Yoruba Traditions and African American Women's Narratives
Article: Enroue Halfkenny is a clinical social worker and Babalawo in the Orisa-Ifa spiritual tradition who focuses on liberation, healing and activism in his practice. In this article he writes about the fear or trepidation people may have connecting with their ancestors and possible ways to overcome it.
Book: Foor Ancestral Medicine
Book: Georgina Tuari Stewart Maori Philosophy
Celtic & Pagan
Teacher: John O'Donohue
Book: John O'Donohue To Bless the Space Between
Book: John O'Donohue Anam Cara: A Book of Celtic Wisdom
Book: John O'Donohue Beauty: The Invisible Embrace
Book: Ted Andrews Nature Speaks: Signs, Owens and Messages in Nature
Book: Jill Hammer The Jewish Book of Days: A Companion for All Seasons
Book: Jill Hammer & Taya Shere The Hebrew Priestess: Ancient and New Visions of Jewish Women's Spiritual Leadership
Hinduism & Yoga
Book: Deborah Adele Yamas & Niyamas: Exploring Yoga's Ethical Practice
Book: Ram Dass Paths to God: Living the Bhagavad Gita
Book: Srimad Bhagavadgita
Buddhism
Teacher: Pema Chodron
Teacher: Thich Nhat Hahn
Book: Pema Chodron Start Where You Are
Book: Pema Chodron When Things Fall Apart
Book: Pema Chodron Comfortable with Uncertainty
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn The Miracle of Mindfulness: An Introduction to the Practice of Meditation
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn You are Here: Discovering the Magic of the Present Moment
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn Peace in Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Every Step
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn Happiness: Essential Mindfulness Practices
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Walk
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to See
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Love
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Relax
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Fight
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Connect
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Eat
Video: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Deal with Strong Emotions
Book: Lama Surya Das Awakening the Buddha Within
Book: Gary R. Renard The Lifetimes when Jesus and Buddha Knew Each Other
Article: Lama Rod Owens & Angel Kyodo Williams Two amazing BIPOC/LGBTQ leaders and teachers in the Buddhist community in conversation about racism and its “threads” of whiteness, superiority/inferiority, hegemony and trauma and their being “plain spoken” with their sangha members.
Book: Sylvia Boorstein Pay Attention for Goodness Sake: practicing the perfections of the heart - the buddhist path of kindness
Podcast: On Buddhism & Activism: Sigal Samuels interviews Valerie Brown, a Black activist, mindfulness teacher (and practicing Quaker) from Brooklyn. She speaks of the historical connection between activism and mindfulness. She speaks from her own life circumstances and how her life changed after attending a talk at Riverside Church led by Thich Nhat Hahn
Judaism
Teacher: Rev. Wil Gafney PhD
Podcast: Prayer to God to Make me a Girl Abby Stein grew up in a Hassidic family as the first born son (after 5 older sisters) who identified as a girl. She talks about growing up Hasidic in Brooklyn NY, what that was like, and how she was not accepted within their religious paradigm.
Video: Interview with Chani Getter about Footsteps, Netflix’s One of Us, and Her Story
Documentary: One of Us featuring Chani Getter a 2017 documentary feature film that chronicles the lives of three ex-Hasidic Jews from Brooklyn
Video: "Biblical Language for a God Who Transcends Gender" A distinguished womanist biblical interpreter, Dr. Wil Gafney reveals the Bible’s use of masculine and feminine imagery for God and how it invites us to look beyond traditional gender categories.
Book: Rev. Wil Gafney PhD Womanist Midrash: A Reintroduction to the Women of the Torah and the Throne.
Book: Rev. Wil Gafney PhD A Women's Lectionary for the Whole Church: Year A
Video: Translation Matters Rev. Wil Gafney PhD at All Saints Church in Pasadena, CA "Here's my challenge: what I have learned is that for people who experience God and only learned about God with masculine language, when you start to say Creator and Shepherd and Redeemer -- that doesn't dislodge that image. It's only when you say 'She,' in my experience, that that image is interrupted, for good or for ill. So that is a part of what the work is."
Book: Jill Hammer The Jewish Book of Days: A Companion for All Seasons
Book: Jill Hammer & Taya Shere The Hebrew Priestess: Ancient and New Visions of Jewish Women's Spiritual Leadership
Christianity
Teacher: Richard Rohr
Teacher: Rev. Wil Gafney PhD
Book: Meggan Watterson Mary Magdalene Revealed: The First Apostle, Her Feminist Gospel & the Christianity We Haven't Tried Yet
Video: Rev. Wil Gafney PhD "Biblical Language for a God Who Transcends Gender"
Video: Rev. Wil Gafney PhD at All Saints Church in Pasadena, CA “Translation Matters”
Podcast: "Breathing Under Water, Falling Upward, and Unlearning Certainty" with Richard Rohr on Unlocking Us Part 1 & Part 2
Podcast: "Finding Your True Self" with Father Richard Rohr on Oprah's Super Soul Conversations
Podcast: Richard Rohr with Krista Tippett on the On Being podcast
Podcast: "Richard Rohr and the Universal Christ” Part 1 & Part 2 on The Liturgists Podcast
Podcast: "Richard Rohr 101" with Fr. Richard Rohr on The Deconstructionists Podcast
Video: From Jesus to Christ FRONTLINE Documentary Part 1 & Part 2
Book: First Nations Version: An Indigenous Translation of the New Testament
Book: Wayne Muller Sabbath: Finding Rest, Renewal and Delight in our Busy Lives
Book: Celia Deane-Drummond A Primer in Ecotheology: Theology for a Fragile Earth
Podcast: Daniel Franzese & Azariah Yass Jesus! Podcast
Book: Gary R. Renard The Lifetimes when Jesus and Buddha Knew Each Other
Book: Linn Marie Tonstad Queer Theology: Beyond Apologetics
Book: Robert Goss Jesus Acted Up: A Gay and Lesbian Manifesto
Podcast: The Liturgists
Islam
Video: Dalia Mogahed What's it's Like to be a Muslim in America
Video: Linda Sarsour A Muslim American on a Mission
Video: Malala The Reality of Womens' Rights In Islamic Cultures
Video: Zena Ibrahim The Woman Behind the Hijab
Video: Amina Wadud The Noble Struggle of Amina Wadud
Book: Patel Acts of Faith: The Story of an American Muslim, the Struggle for the Soul of a Generation
Mormonism
Online Resource: Jeremy Runnels CES Letter: Compilation of Discrepancies in the Mormon Truth Claims
Book: Martha Beck Leaving the Saints: How I Lost the Mormons and Found My Faith
Show: Mormon No More
Fundamentalism
Teacher: Chani Getter
Video: Interview with Chani Getter about Footsteps, Netflix’s One of Us, and Her Story
Documentary: One of Us featuring Chani Getter
Online Resource: Footsteps for Leaving Orthodox life
Online Resource: Dare to Doubt Community for those considering leaving harmful belief systems
Book: Martha Beck Leaving the Saints: How I Lost the Mormons and Found My Faith
Reality TV Show: My Unorthodox Life
A Course in Miracles
Audio: Dr. Kenneth Wapnick Living 'A Course in Miracles': Applying the Course's Messages of Wisdom, Courage, and Forgiveness
Book: Marianne Williamson A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of A Course in Miracles
Book: Robert Holden Holy Shift! 365 Daily Meditations from A Course in Miracles
Book: Robert Holden Lovability: Knowing how to Love and Be Loved
Teachers: Robert Holden & Hollie Holden (his wife) – they are great ACIM teachers and do both trainings/workshops as well as year-long teaching on the workbook
Sex, Sexuality, Gender & The Feminine
Podcast: Prayer to God to Make me a Girl: Abby Stein grew up in a Hassidic family as the first born son (after 5 older sisters) who identified as a girl. She talks about growing up Hasidic in Brooklyn NY, what that was like, and how she was not accepted within their religious paradigm.
Podcast: Daniel Franzese & Azariah Yass Jesus! Podcast
Video: Lyla June The Sacredness of Twoness
Book: Meggan Watterson Mary Magdalene Revealed: The First Apostle, Her Feminist Gospel & the Christianity We Haven't Tried Yet
Book: Mercedes Kirkel Mary Magdalene Beckons
Book: Rev. Wil Gafney PhD Womanist Midrash: A Reintroduction to the Women of the Torah and the Throne.
Book: Rev. Wil Gafney PhD A Women's Lectionary for the Whole Church: Year A
Book: Robert Goss Jesus Acted Up: A Gay and Lesbian Manifesto
Book: Linn Marie Tonstad Queer Theology: Beyond Apologetics
The Environment
Video: Lyla June The Resurgence of Indigenous Knowledge
Video: Lyla June 2017 Geography of Hope: Lyla June Johnston on Forgiveness
Video: Shaykh Hamza Yusuf Healing Self, Healing Society
Book: Ted Andrews Nature Speaks: Signs, Owens and Messages in Nature
Book: Celia Deane-Drummond A Primer in Ecotheology: Theology for a Fragile Earth
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For You to Practice
Video Practice: Jennifer Reis YOGA NIDRA: Divine Sleep Yoga Nidra -- Healing Chakra Chorus (this is my GO TO practice to regulate, center and connect)
Video Practice: Edo & Jo Ganesha Mantra: Om Gam Ganapataye Namaha (8 minute practice you can do daily to connect with Ganesha and clear obstacles)
Audio Practice: Kirtonium Kirtan by my favorite artists (one of my favorite practices especially to raise me up and use my voice/process emotions)
Video Practice: Krishna Das Kirtan Om Namah Shivaya Kirtan Practice
Video: Focus & Creativity - Creative Thinking, Visualisation & Problem Solving - Binaural Beats & Iso Tones (I use this when I want to focus, write or create)
Video: Tibetan Healing Sounds: Cleans the Aura and Space. Removes all negative energy
About Practices
Book: Janet Conner Writing Down Your Soul (this is my favorite spiritual practice and the one that has had the most impact on my life)
Podcast: “The Awakened Brain: The Neuroscience of Spirituality" with Lisa Miller, PhD on The Rich Roll Podcast (this podcast blows my mind. Science and Spirituality and evidence of so much of what I believe)
Book: Julia Cameron The Artist's Way (a great place to start, especially for creativity. Writing Pages is great as a starting point!)
Book: Seena B. Frost Soul Collage (this is a huge part of my spiritual practice - getting back to creativity is absolutely an access to intuitive connection)
Book: James Nestor Breathe
Book: Louise Hay & Robert Holden Life Loves You: 7 Spiritual Practices to Heal Your Life
Podcast: Toko-pa Turner "On Dreams & Belonging" with Toko Pa Turner on CIIS Public Programs Podcast
Book: Toko-pa Turner Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home
Podcast: "Dacher Keltner on Happiness & Awe" on the 10 Percent Happier Podcast
Book: Dacher Keltner Awe: The New Science of Everyday Wonder and How It Can Transform Your Life
Book: Wayne Muller Sabbath: Finding Rest, Renewal and Delight in our Busy Lives
Book: Wayne Muller Learning to Pray: How we find heaven on earth
Book: John Roedel Hey God. Hey John.: What Happens When God Writes Back
Podcast: "John Roedel: Poetry, Remedy of the Soul" on the Unknowingly Connected Podcast
Book: Mark Holloway The Freedom Diaries: God Speaks Back
Book: Rochele Schieck QOYA: A compass for navigating an embodied life that is Wise, Wild and Free
Book: Karen Brody The Daring to Rest Yoga Nidra Meditation Program
Book: Diane Berke Developing & Deepening Your Spiritual Practice: An Interspiritual Approach (this was one of my textbooks for seminary written by the founder and spiritual director of the seminary program. It includes different practices to choose from from different traditions)
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn Happiness: Essential Mindfulness Practices
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Walk
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to See
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Love
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Relax
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Fight
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Connect
Book: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Eat
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Book: Yung Pueblo Clarity & Connection
Book: Mary Oliver Evidence, a Book of Poems
Book: Hafiz The Gift (book of poems)
Book: Lorin Roche, PhD The Radiance Sutras: 112 Gateways to the Yoga of Wonder and Delight
Book: Marianne Williamson A Year of Miracles: Daily Devotions and Reflections
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These are great books for kids but also for adults. I recommend them to everyone.
Book: Carole Lindstrom We are Water Protectors
Book: Charlie Mackesy The Boy, The Moe, The Fox & The Horse
Book: Jomny Sun Everyone's a Aliebn When Ur a Aliebn Too: A Book
Book: Dr. Seuss Oh, The Places You'll Go
Book: Patrice Karst The Invisible String
Book: Etan Boritzer What is God? (What Is...?)
Book: Lin-Manuel Miranda & Jomny Sun Gmorning, Gnight!: Little Pep Talks for Me & You
Book: Libby Moore The River of Birds (this was written by a dear friend before she passed. It addresses loss, death and dying in a really beautiful way).
On Living Connected
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Podcast: Scene on Radio Season 2 “On Seeing White” (link is for Episode 1, there are 15 and I recommend them all. All are in the spotify playlist)
Podcast: 1619
Documentary Series: 1619
Online Resource: Tema Okun's Dismantling Racism
PDF: Tema Okun's White Supremacy Culture breakdown
Article: Tema Okun "White Supremacy Culture"
Article: Peggy McIntosh "White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack"
Book: Ibram X. Kendi How to Be An Antiracist
Book: Tricia Heresy Rest is Resistence: A Manifesto
Book: Menakem My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies
Book: Layla F. Saad Me and White Supremacy: Combat Racism, Change the World, and Become a Good Ancestor
Book: Austin Channing Brown I'm Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for Whiteness
Book: Dr. Robin DiAngelow, Michael Eric White Fragility: Why It's So Hard for White People to talk about Racism
Book: Jessie Daniels Nice White Ladies: The Truth about White Supremacy, Our Role in it, and how we can help Dismantle it
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Podcast: "No More Grind: Home to Finally rest" with Tricia Hersey on We Can Do Hard Things Podcast
Online Resource: Tricia Heresy The Nap Ministry
Book: Tricia Heresy Rest is Resistence: A Manifesto
Book: Kerri Kelly American Detox: The Myth of Wellness and How We Can Truly Heal
Book: Katherine May Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times
On Spirituality & Religion
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Spiritual Personal Development
Book: Anita Moorjani Dying to be Me
Book: Anita Moorjani Sensitive Is the New Strong: The Power of Empaths in an Increasingly Harsh World
Podcast: Brene Brown on the How to Fail Podcast with Elizabeth Day
Book: Elizabeth Gilbert Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear
Book: Brene Brown Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience
Book: Desmond Tutu & Mpho Tutu The Book of Forgiving
Book: Janet Conner Find Your Soul's Purpose: Discover Who You Are, Remember Why You Are Here, Live a Life You Love
Book: Katherine May Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times
Book: Don Miguel Ruiz The Four Agreements
Book: Dr. Wayne W. Dyer The Power of Intention: Learning to Co-Create Your World Your Way
Book: Eckhart Tolle A New Earth: Awakening Your Life's Purpose
Book: Eckhart Tolle The Power of Now
Book: Elizabeth Lesser Broken Open: How Difficult Times Can Help Us Grow
Book: Katherine Ketcham, Ernest Kurtz The Spirituality of Imperfection: Storytelling and the Search for Meaning
Book: Louise Hay You Can Heal Your Life
Book: Martha Beck Diana, Herself: An Allegory of Awakening
Book: Pema Chodron Start Where You Are
Book: Pema Chodron When Things Fall Apart
Book: Pema Chodron Comfortable with Uncertainty
Book: Ram Dass Being Ram Dass
Book: Ram Dass Polishing the Mirror: How to Live from Your Spiritual Heart
Audiobook: Ram Dass Becoming Nobody: The Essential Ram Dass Collection
Book: Robert Holden Lovability
Book: Robert Holden Higher Purpose: How to Find More Inspiration, Meaning, and Purpose in Your Life
Book: Robert Holden Shift Happens - How to Live an Inspired Life... Starting Now!
Book: Ross Gay The Book of Delights
Video: Shaykh Hamza Yusuf Healing Self, Healing Society
Book: Shirley Maclaine The Camino: A Journey of the Spirit
Book: Shirley Maclain What If...: A Lifetime of Questions, Speculations, Reasonable Guesses, and a Few Things I Know for Sure
Book: Sonia Choquette The Answer is Simple: Love Yourself, Live Your Spirit!
Book: Sonia Choquette Your Heart's Desire: Instructions for Creating the Life You Really Want
Book: Susan Cain Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole
Video: Thich Nhat Hahn How to Deal with Strong Emotions
Podcast: "On Dreams & Belonging" with Toko Pa Turner on CIIS Public Programs Podcast
Book: Toko-Pa Turner Belonging: Remembering Ourselves Home
Book: Wayne Muller A life of being, having and doing enough
Book: Wayne Muller Legacy of the Heart: The Spiritual Advantages of a Painful Childhood
Book: Yung Pueblo Lighter: Let Go of the Past, Connect with the Present, and Expand the Future
Book: Yung Pueblo Inward
Personal Development
Video: Brene Brown "6 Types of People Who Do Not Deserve to Hear Your Shame Story"
Book: Brene Brown I Thought It Was Just Me (but it isn’t): Telling the Truth about Perfectionism, Inadequacy, and Power
Book: Brene Brown Daring Greatly
Book: Brene Brown Braving the Wilderness: The Quest for True Belonging and the Courage to Stand Alone
Book: Byron Katie Loving what Is: Four Questions That Can Change Your Life
Book: Doreen Virtue Don't Let Anything Dull Your Sparkle
Book: Glennon Doyle Carry On Warrior
Book: Glennon Doyle Love Warrior
Book: Glennon Doyle Untamed
Book: Ingrid Fetell Lee Joyful: The Surprising Power of Ordinary Things to Create Extraordinary Happiness
Book: Martha Beck Finding Your Own North Star: Claiming the Life You Were Meant to Live
Book: Martha Beck Steering by Starlight: Find Your Right Life, No Matter What!
Book: Martha Beck Finding your way in a Wild New World
Book: Marie Kondo The Life-changing Magic of Tidying Up
Personality
Personality Test: 16 Personalities
Personality Test: RHETI Enneagram Assessment
Online Resource: Enneagram Profiles Conscious Dynamics
Workshop: Robert Holden & Caroline Myss Purpose & The Enneagram
Personality Test: Kolbe Type A Measures the ways you take action
Personality Test: Love Languages Assessment for self and family
Personality Test: Values in Action Character Strengths Assessment
Personality Test: Dr. Elaine Aron Highly Sensitive Person Assessments for you, kids, etc.
Book: Dr. Elaine Aron The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You
Book: Judy Dyer The Highly Sensitive: How to Find Inner Peace, Develop Your Gifts, and Thrive
Online Resources: Sebastian Martin On Being a Scanner Personality
Book: Robin M Koppensteiner Finish what You've Started Easily: An Essay for Multipotentialites, Scanners, ENFPs & INFPs
Book: Susan Cain TED Talk Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking
Video: Susan Cain The Power of Introverts
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Mind-Body Connection
Documentary: Heal A documentary film that takes us on a scientific and spiritual journey where we discover that by changing one's perceptions, beliefs, and emotions, the human body can heal itself from any dis-ease.
Book: John Sarno, M.D. The Mindbody Prescription: Healing the Body, Healing the Pain
Book: John Sarno, M.D. Healing Back Pain
Book: Louise Hay Heal Your Body: The Mental Causes for Physical Illness and the Metaphysical Way to Overcome Them
Book: Anthony William Medical Medium
Bodies & Food
Podcast: "What if you Loved Your body" with Sonya Renee Taylor on We Can Do Hard Things
Book: Sonya Renee Taylor The Body Is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love
Book: Reginald A. Ray The Awakening Body
Book: Roxanne Gay Hunger
Book: Anita A. Johnston, PhD Eating in the Light of the Moon
Sex, Sexuality & Gender
Book: Emily Nagoski Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
Podcast: Emily Nagoski Come as you Are
Video: Emily Nagoski TED Shorts "The keys to a great sex life"
Book: Janet W. Hardy & Dossie Easton The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love
Book: Jessica Graham Good Sex: Getting off without Checking out
Book: David Deida Dear Lover: A Woman's Guide to Men, Sex, and Love's Deepest Bliss
Book: Regena Thomashauer Mana Gena's School of the Womanly Arts
Video: Grace Wetzel TEDx "Talk Let's Talk About Sex: The Reality of the Sexual Pleasure Disparity"
Video: Sarah Byrde TEDx Talk "Good Sex Isn't About Knowing what you're doing"
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Romantic
Teacher: Esther Perel
Podcast: Esther Perel Where Should We Begin
Online Resource: Dan Savage Savage Love Column
Podcast: Dan Savage Savage Lovecast
Book: Amir Levine & Rachel Heller Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How it can help you find - and keep - love
Book: Chapman The 5 Love Languages
Book: John A. Sanford The Invisible Partner: How the Male and Female in Each of Us Affects Our Relationships
Book: Priya Parker The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters
Parenting
Video: Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D. Mindset: How To Help Every Child Fulfil Their Potential
Book: Dr. Becky Kennedy Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
Book: Dr. Elaine Aron The Highly Sensitive Child: Helping Our Children Thrive When The World Overwhelms Them
Book: Dr. Elaine Aron The Highly Sensitive Parent: Be Brilliant in Your Role, Even When the World Overwhelms You
Book: Ellyn Satter Secrets of Feeding a Healthy Family: How to Eat, How to Raise Good Eaters, How to Cook
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Reproductive Experiences
Book: Leslie Heard and Nandi Gordon Soul Babies: The Spiritual side of Abortion and Miscarriages
Death & Dying
Book: Ram Dass Walking Each Other Home: Conversations on Loving and Dying
Book: Rev. Barbara Becker Heartwood
Book: Libby Moore The River of Birds
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Book: Dr. Becky Kennedy Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be
Book: Wayne Muller Legacy of the Heart: The Spiritual Advantages of a Painful Childhood
Book: Resmaa Menakem MSW LICSW SEP My Grandmother’s Hands
Book: Pete Walker Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma
Book: Bessel van der Kolk M.D. The Body Keeps the Score
Book: Mark Wolynn It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle
Book: Peter Levine Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma
Book: Debbie Mizra The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist
Book: Karyl McBride, Ph.D Will I ever Be Good Enough? Healing the Daughters
Book: Susan Forward, Donna Frazier Glynn Mothers Who Can't Love
Book: Wendy Maltz The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse
Book: Cyra Perry Doughterty The Anatomy of Silence: 26 Stories about all the shit that gets in the way of speaking about sexual violence
On Working Connected
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Book: Emily & Amelia Nagoski Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle
Book: David Brooks The Road to Character
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Book: Brene Brown Rising Strong
Book: Luna & Herrick Your Story Is Your Power: Free Your Feminine Voice
Book: Simon Sinek Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don't
Book: Tara Mohr Playing Big: Practical wisdom for Women who want to Speak Up, Create and Lead
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Book: Marianne Williamson The Law of Divine Compensation
Book: Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D. Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
Book: Simon Sinek Find your Why
Book: Simon Sinek Start with Why
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Book: Kerri Kelly American Detox: The Myth of Wellness and How We Can Truly Heal
Podcast: "Burnout and How to Complete the Cycle" with Emily and Amelia Nagoski on Unlocking Us Podcast
Book: Emily & Amelia Nagoski Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle
Book: Katherine May Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times
Personal Recommendations
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Podcast: Nihizhi, Our Voices: An Indigenous Solutions Podcast with Lyla June
Podcast: We can Do Hard Things
Podcast: How to Fail
Podcast: Unlocking Us
Podcast: Scene on Radio
Podcast: RadioLab
Podcast: Hidden Brain
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I often recommend books to clients because I find it so helpful to rest by reading engaging books.
Book: Lucinda Riley The Seven Sisters (read them ALL - they are my FAVORITE right now)
Book: Deborah Harkness A Discovery of Witches (and the rest of the All Souls Trilogy)
Book: Fredrik Backman Beartown (and the rest of the trilogy)
Book: Katherine Arden The Bear and the Nightingale (and the rest of the Winternight Trilogy)
Book: JoJo Moyes Me Before You (and all her other books)
Book: Geraldine Brooks Horse
Book: Sejal Badani The Storyteller's Secret
Book: Sue Monk Kidd The Book of Longings
Book: Anita Diamant The Red Tent
Book: Delia Owens Where the Crawdads Sing
Book: Natasha Boyd The Indigo Girl
Book: Taylor Jenkins Reid The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
Book: Sarah J. Maas A Court of Thorns & Roses (and the rest of the series) she writes very engaging/sexy fantasy novels that are incredible if you need a guilty pleasure
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Book: Trevor Noah Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood
Book: Michelle Obama Becoming
Book: Martha Beck Expecting Adam
Book: Shirley Maclaine Out on a Limb
Book: Jeanette Walls Glass Castle
Book: Tara Westover Educated
Book: J.D. Vance Hillbilly Elegy
Portland Recommendations
If you’re planning to visit Portland or you live here, I have recommendations for you.
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